Most relationships end with a whimper and not a bang.
Were you just in the same old rut of work, Netflix, and coupledom?
If this breakup caught you off guard or you feel that your ex was “The One,” you might be tempted to do whatever it takes to win her or him back.Work on building a life of your own for the time being.It doesn’t mean you’re giving up on getting back with your ex — it just means you want to be the best prepared. Reconnect with an old friend, take long walks in the country alone, revisit a hobby you have let lapse.It takes an extreme amount of work and diligence for your ex to see you as a better version of yourself.And both parties need to be on the same page when it comes to trying to get back together.Unless you do, you’ll never be able to fully commit and enter into another relationship, whether it’s with your ex or someone else. There may be trivial reasons (“I don’t like the way she chews.”), but there is a reason or reasons.Maybe they told you exactly what it was, and maybe you have no idea what it was. Lior Gotesman, Founder of Relationship Hero.com, a website dedicated to winning back your ex says, “Don’t blindly follow the no-contact rule.Whatever you think, you were not blameless in the breakup.We’ve all contributed things that chipped away at the base of a relationship.Even if you don’t get back with your ex, you’ll have made yourself a better person for the next relationship you have. The five stages of grief are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance.You may have these kinds of thoughts: To be the type of person who can win back your ex, you need to experience these and come out on the other side.