If you feel the need to check up on him, go look at funny You Tube videos or call a friend.
I was so glad I went to confront him and get closure, even though he could not come clean and just end it properly.
Because it’s an uncomfortable conversation to have and he doesn’t want to have it. Also, men just aren’t as equipped to handle emotions and emotional situations as women are, so they avoid them. They tell themselves that she must know this isn’t going to work out and calling and telling her something she already knows would just be silly, so that’s the end of that.
Most men would rather walk over a bed of burning hot coals than tell a girl to her face they’re not into her. And most of the time, they will reason that the girl is probably on the same page so there is no need to reach out.
Now lets all breath a sigh of relief that those Houdinis did us the courtesy of finding something better! He may start to withdraw, to lose interest, and you just feel that something is off. I have a bf and we ere together like 2 years more we are LDR.
You can stop a disappearance before it happens if you know what signs to look for. Do you know what to do to get things back on track? He always vanishing, sometimes untill 3 days or more.