You figured that since he was such a nice guy, he was sure to join the Church.
He lets you go to Church and supports you in your callings, but he rarely goes himself.
They wonder what you do with yourself all day with 5 children and no nanny.
Though it is nice to have those things, it is more important that you share the same goals and values.
Discuss with the girls that they aren't the only ones choosing a spouse.
You thought he would quit after you got married, but now he drinks, too.
Because of that, he feels uncomfortable going to church.