He also told me he had a friend in high school die from cancer, which according to his sister is also a lie!We live 2 hours apart so it makes things even harder with trusting him.(I just found out today that he filed for another continuance- another 3 months..) Along with the emotional damage that he has done to me, I am financially ruined.He lied about needing some things, took some credit out in my name, and then hid the statements, telling me that he was keeping up on the payments.Your family may love him, but from my experience, that love can quickly turn when they watch this person destroy someone that they love.I am half expecting my family to show up wherever he is staying with torches.. I love my husband dearly, but I never know when he is telling me the truth.Proceed with caution- and above all, protect yourself. He has told me some very big lies including losing a best friend to suicide and some small lies everyday almost.And one final thing- I was pretty convinced that my husband wasn't cheating, but he told lies so easily, that I am pretty sure that in fact, he was cheating. I hate living with someone who lies all the time, but I really love him as a husband and a father.
If you want to keep them in your life (and you have every right not to), then you have to stay calm and learn to deal with them without losing your patience.Wanna know how she found he was not dying of cancer? Apparently he had been robbing many banks in a couple states (I suppose while he was away for 2 day treatments.She was watching the evening news while he was at treatment, and low and behold there is his face on t.v. So, just imagine the devestation my friend is going through. Many family members took out second mortgages to help finance his treatments and support them. Is this this kind of scenario you want to find yourself in? Needless to say my friend is in completely turmoil, financially and needless to say emotionally.I think maybe when we first met he lied about things he's accomplished in order to impress me. But he has a problem and he's admitted it but yet doesn't seem to be getting better.He told me he was going to therapy but i don't think that is true, and how can i know when i only see him on weekends?? DMO, I can't say your situation is exactly the same as what I am going to describe, but I have a friend who's b/f (who became her husband) was claiming he had cancer as well, but from the time they met.He loves me and accepts me for who i am good and bad and it makes it so hard to let go. I know this man personally..all fell so bad for him and for her.Well, turns out he never had cancer, there were no appointments, no treatments. This guy was a drug addict in the worse way, and obviously a pathological liar. People donated money to help support them because he couldn't work and she had to quit her job to take care of him.My boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months, and it has been a complete rollercoaster.I have suspected him of lying since the 2nd month of our relationship and have been calling him out on it every time.Today i found out, from his sister, that he lied to me about having CANCER!He told me he had cancer back in middle school, but apparently it was all a lie!