After just a few minutes of hanging out with your group, he's got them eating from the palm of his hand.When he goes off to get a drink, you notice that a few of the women are still smiling, and as he turns his back, they look at each other, signaling something between them.In order for another person to allow us into their "zone of trust," they have to feel that they are respected. Think back to a time when you were talking on the phone to a customer service rep, and they said, "So-and-so Company, can you hold for a second? But if that same customer service person just said: "I'm sorry, I have to go put you on hold for a second. " before they put you on hold, what would you feel then?
- you feel the fear starting to burn in your stomach like a hot coal.And not only that, but over 40% said that keeping the conversation going beyond the first couple exchanges was the part of attracting a woman.A few years ago, I would actually have agreed with them, because this was really tough for me, too.I've conducted polls of thousands of men to find out what guys want and need most to develop their game with women, as well as general social skills.Hands down, every guy wants better conversational ability.Another natural body language expression is when a man rubs his chin with one arm supporting the other.() You want to have the appearance of someone who is taking in the information, and is genuinely listening - DEEPLY listening as if his life depended on what was being said.But I found a way to overcome this, and now that's about to change for you.The funny thing is that these same guys don't know how right they are that CONVERSATION is their most POWERFUL asset when creating Attraction and Rapport with women - or just forming bonds with other guys.Think about the last time you talked to someone and they became your willing student.I'll bet any amount of money that your impression and favorable feelings of them went UP - big time.