But not only did it not get me to the relationship I wanted, it ultimately made me an a*****e.
Ghosting is pretty much crap for lots of reasons...
Most women I work with yell from the rooftops how available they are. When you meet someone and it just feels so, so right.
Listen up as I tell her story and make sure you prevent this from happening. If I were to ask you if you are emotionally available, what would you say? What I learned and how the stories about what your relationship is "supposed to" be like it total b******t. Ready for one part honest stories one part really smart stuff one part ridiculous talk about 90s fashion? Today, I have two of my favorite people on earth on my podcast. You look around at everyone you know and you might be asking yourself..I even want a relationship? He is on the podcast to talk about the ridiculous night we met, the beginning of our relationship and what we did wrong and right! I am sharing my guts all over the place this episode.
I don't know about you, this time of year always starts to get me thinking about camp. Not what picture to put up or what to write in your profile but mindsets and strategies to keep you sane! On a regular basis I hear ladies saying...chivalry is dead. Today, I share a story from my past where I made mistakes to prevent you from making the same ones. So, today, I am going to cut through the crap and just... But at one point, I realized that my snark was hurting, not helping me create healthy relationships. Someone on the other end of the computer/phone who will text us when we are feeling lonely or need a little...
But if you aren't dating anymore...should you be friends? Today, I give you some questions and thoughts that you will want to answer before you... That is why I am breaking down today why getting Vulnerable is not... I just had a stellar talk with my retreat participants and decided that we have a smart talk about online dating. No matter how much you love the holidays, when you are single there are some just some annoying as f**k parts to it that it can downright tarnish your jingle bells. Even if we are out there trying, dating, mating all of the things, a lot of the time we keep a plan b. Let me break down for you why it's important to not date... I pretty much think it is the bane of our existence in dating.
The other roommate was a little odd — she would wake up at 5am and immediately start typing really loudly and calling people on the phone to talk about her grades. What I learned from helping my residents — and later my friends — was that for many young people, there’s a game being played around us that we just don’t realize.
Quick reality checks on love, dating and why you are single--all shoved into 7 little minutes. You can expect some rants about mindsets that needs some “clarification” (i.e., revealing hard-core truths about some kind of crap people are buying into), but you can guarantee she will be bringing in smart, fresh thoughts that can help you change your perspective on love. It seems that almost all the time when I ask people how they are, they tell me they are so busy. Today is a big ass reality check about no matter how much you bitch about it over wine, are you actually ready for love? Listen up as I break down my thoughts on settling, divorce and dating with kids.... Listen up as I talk today about dating myths that even the smartest of smarties are buying into... Listen up as I talk today about why that isn't love and what you can do about it. So grab your light saber or black belt and listen in as they are laid out in this 10... But what if that last rejection was actually not about you? Here are my pretty darn smart thoughts on the way we love and why we can't really take a break-up so stinkin' seriously.... Sometimes we are pretty darn good at convincing ourselves that our excuses are the real reason we don't have a relationship. No you dirty birdies, I am not talking about orgasms! One day, I woke up and didn’t want to date unavailable men anymore and I had to have a tough moment where I needed to fess up to myself that it was ME choosing them. I was the one buying the ticket to the crazy train and... Today is a big ass reality check about (complicated) dating over 35 and what we need to do about it. Ideas that keep us super duper safe and making excuses of why love is not working for us. We allow s****y behavior to happen and call it love although it has NOTHING to do with it. However, there are small mindsets that can make it all quite a bit easier and the dating jedi or ninja you secretly know you are. I am talking about how I get up every day and fake most parts of my life.... Today, I breakdown one thing we are forgetting about love and relationships nowadays and is the most important thing. I can not lie, we believe a lot of crap when it comes to love. Let’s be honest, there are a lot of s**t relationships out there and if you have been dating for awhile there is a pretty good chance you have been in at least... Things are different than ever before And you have to be ready. Listen up as I talk today about a personal story that left me with a huge a-ha moment and... We all have times in our life where we want to be adored, cherished, put on a pedestal by someone. I just read a brilliant study from Harvard about the number one thing that makes us happy and healthy. I am going to tell you and also share a story from my past and what had to happen for me to get to this place. Do the people that you are dating and having relationships with know how to love you? It confirmed what I already knew..women who stand together can change the world. So we are here in Costa Rica and my s**t is coming up for me. This week has been rough around here and I have some things to say..quite a bit of swearing. Today I breakdown how we all have to start fixing this s**t around us and it all begins with love. After nine years of coaching and working with single women, there is one thing I know to be true..without even knowing it so many women are giving away their power, worth and confidence ever single day. In my former life, I would have lost my s**t and feared that it was too much. When I was 13, I went to summer camp and it turned out to be the most life changing experience of my childhood. Without even noticing, introducing people to friends and family can be the natural next step or sabotaging your new relationship. Today, I am going to break down three ways to know when it is a great time to... I am breaking down today why having that mindset is not helping you or your relationships. We are home on a rando Tuesday night and all of a sudden we hear from someone we never thought we would hear from again. I am breaking down some theories of why they are there and what to do about it.... I pretty much have to agree, but I think that overall, we have killed. Listen in as I explain why I think that and what we can do about it. I sat back in awe as I watched women all over the world stand up for what they believe. So today I breakdown what to do when we express our thoughts, feelings, etc and it doesn't go over well. A few years ago, I was struggling with figuring out why I was having such trouble with guys until I figured out that my... But we have to be very, very careful about who we let give us advice about relationships and dating. Listen today, as I break down who to listen to and who is... Nothing sucks worse than when you are feeling down in the dumps, not sure why you are single and someone says to you "you can't find love until you love yourself". If that is true, then we might as well go grab our wine... Listen to my story today on how why I used to be funnier and why I changed. There was whining, crying, a mild temper tantrum and so much more. Because when you change your perspective, you change your life. If you are ready to stop waiting for love and start creating an amazing relationship, then we are on like Donkey Kong! One of the things we think is empowering is when we see a friend hurting we start to blame others. Today, I breakdown why that feeling not only sucks but is pretty much the biggest (love) sabotage ever. Your adventure for today: Journal the s**t out of these... However, it is your job to make sure you are not just giving it away and getting nothing in return. Listen up as I break down my thoughts on how to detect about... "We just didn't have instant chemistry." "I am not going to settle! Occasionally, life hits us over the head with an idea over and over again until we figure it out. Listen in on how this mind-blowing idea will change the way you date. They may not even know they are doing it, but people love attention.