Some women are happy to get down to business the night they meet; others will wait weeks or months before doing the deed.In other words, if a woman knocks boots with a guy too soon, does she automatically nix her chances for long-term love—or is that old-fashioned nonsense in today’s modern-day dating scene? They’re particularly stuck on the idea that if a woman hops into bed with them quickly then she must have done this with lots of other men as well. After all, if everyone can have her, she can’t be all that special, can she?“Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if hes interested in YOU or in SEX.” Excellent point and one to never forget. Erik Von Markovik, also known as Mystery, is the originator of the majority of pick up artist knowledge.However, there’s no set timetable or finite number of dates that will let you know when it’s time to give it up. That’s what you get for playing by a made-up set of rules. As a woman, your job is not to come up with an arbitrary number of dates, like the U. coming up with a pull out date for our soldiers in Iraq.I know one woman who was told by an “expert” to wait 10 dates before sleeping with the man she was dating. Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if he’s interested in YOU or in SEX. And if you can’t handle the emotional consequences of making an occasional mistake, you probably shouldn’t sleep with anyone until you’re in a committed relationship.To find out, we grilled three women about the ups and downs of when they get down to business… On the other hand, I also know from personal experience that if a guy is crazy about a girl, and they move really fast, all the rules go out the window.
No doubt about it: The first time a woman beds down with a guy she’s crazy about is an exciting and special time. Whatever a woman’s decision, we had to wonder: Does the double standard still exist today? They push women for sex, then blame them for having sex.
Mystery spent many years developing his knowledge about pick up artistry by frequenting bars, clubs and strip joints in the Toronto area.
He says of this period of his life, that he would sometimes go out 7 nights a week to practice and would often be 'itching' to go out. Mystery was heavily influenced by his role as a magician and entertainer in the way he approached pick up artistry.
I repeat: Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if he’s interested in YOU or in SEX. This has been my personal policy for the past three years – no committed relationship, no sex – and it’s worked very well for me. Men, I want to hear from you, as well…Oh how timely!
Being newly back on the dating scene I’ve been wrestling with this as not only a personal moral issue but also wanting to know other perspecitves.