I recently posted an online ad for a jack-off buddy.I got a response from a man who turned out to be a gorgeous, young Sri Lankan dude with a huge, beautiful uncut cock.After we were finished, he indicated that he might hit me up again.Do you think I should continue with the massage and "happy ending" in hopes he will someday feel comfortable enough to reciprocate?
But since you asked: A nonmonogamous person has sex with their partner and others; a poly person has or is open to having committed and concurrent romantic relationships.Or should I just go ahead and find myself another jack-off buddy? I recently spent a wonderful weekend with a young woman from out of town who identifies as queer and poly.Craving Uncut Masculine Sri Lankan Another jack-off buddy? Being the curious guy I am, I had her explain what these things meant to her.For one example: An ethically nonmonogamous woman fucks the boyfriend/husband she loves and other guys she doesn't; a poly woman has two (or more) guys she both loves and fucks.I have two complaints: one with the world and one with you.She is very mono and has no interest in going outside the marriage for sex.My quarrel with you has to do with your oft-repeated advice that people should break things off with partners who don't perform oral sex. My boyfriend of five years has developed a strange fascination. (Spoiler: He's bi, bicurious, or so homoflexible he could tour with Cirque du Soleil.) If you're not interested in having sex with women, tell him so.We've always watched porn together, but now he has been looking at straight porn and even lesbian porn (!!! More than once he has expressed an interest in having a MMF threesome—and he's a self-proclaimed gold-star gay! On the other hand, we still have sex pretty frequently. Guy Alarmed, Yeah, By Younger Boyfriend's Interest Turning bi? If being with you means he can never have sex with a woman, tell him so.My wife doesn't like to give head—and I really don't like getting it from her, since she doesn't like doing it.It is, however, one of the things on my list for my quarterly pro session.