Older women especially mothers of young adult women definitely have trouble getting their heads around younger women and older men relationships.But what about an age difference of say ten years only.We at malenirvana have spent some time researching this question of morality with 40yrs something males and 20 yrs – 24yrs something females the younger women older men scenario.The conclusion is that young women like older men because the relationship comes with benefits – lots of them.This certainly makes sense if you are in your 30’s as hitching up with someone your own age on a permanent basis means when you have kids your wife/partner will most likely be menopausal and the kids will be going through adolescence.Marrying a younger women when your in your mid 30’s who is say 25 years old can avoid all those dilemmas down the track. If men were to change the way they actually think about relationships with women and their age relative to how old they are and what lies ahead what a huge mind shift this would be for men. We live in a world of “Species in Denial” when it comes to the unconventional.
It’s not just about the common denominator of what people think.Younger women and older men generally get along very well.It would be true to say most middle aged couples are really not very comfortable with the younger women and older men scenario and from our experiences middle aged women do not deal with this at all well.To that end, your appearance says a lot about who you are in society.To an American, the motto may go something like: "Look Poor, Act Rich" -we like to look good, without appearing as if we are trying to hard.But a Korean motto is quite the opposite; for example, a Korean woman will dress to a T with designer clothes, high-quality makeup and five-inch heels...if you compliment her on any of these stylish choices, her response will probably be something like, "Oh this? " It's considered rude to gloat on a compliment..truth be told, both men and women consider appearance to be high on their list of criteria when choosing a partner, because it's not just the person you spend weekends with, it's the person you're going to be I'm not going to pretend like Korean guys are going around holding doors for women and opening car doors, but couples are often seen together, the man holding the woman's purse and/or books, while also holding her hand. Maybe....but, probably it's more a case of plain old-fashioned chivalry. Apparently you can have your cake and eat it too...I'm going to say something that's probably not going to be very popular, but in the United States, feminism killed chivalry. most Korean women have the same amount of education and advancement in the career world as their male counterparts, yet the man still has to hold her purse? But let me clue you in on a little secret few Korean girls would admit to: it’s all fake. The more innocent a Korean girl appears, the more attractive she becomes to her suitors.You might be able to point out that Korean culture is firmly founded on traditional values, and therefore the girls truly may be as coy as they seem…but I’m here to tell you, they’re not.Korean girls do just about everything else American girls do, the only differences is they keep it behind closed doors, and they don’t talk about it openly. Sexual advertising is everywhere, it’s impossibly to avoid, so maybe the Koreans are on to something here...is more.