Because they are too and it’s your job to set the tone.
Don’t ghost because shit comes around and someone you really like will ghost on you and you will internalize it and wonder why and if you’re defective. You can’t want a cleaner world and toss your bag of Wendy’s out your car window.
But hiding behind your friends just screams insecurity. If they look like Drew Barrymore on Skype, Drew Carry won’t show up. And you’ve already talked to them on the phone so you already have a feel for their personality.
*I recently met this awesome guy online (I contacted him) and we have amazing chemistry. I want to give him some space to figure out what he wants but I also want to see him!! Ask yourself if there's a chance that this is the case. Do your instincts lead you to the right place when dating?
I have been on for six months and have gone on countless dates, and he is the first one that I feel a true connection with. I have no doubt in my mind that he likes me and feels the chemistry too, but when we're not together, it's he forgets that I'm alive.
But this process is what made dating fun, exciting, romantic, and fulfilling. But more importantly, It gave two people a real chance because effort was put into it.
It made the date a mini event, something to look forward to. Today, a date is a coffee or a drink but not dinner because what if they don’t look like their picture.