She didn't even just say "I DON'T WANT to stop hanging out." She said it's not time..is one darned chilly answer. How is it a win-win for him when he isn't winning anything? In this situation OP can start dating other women while he sleeps with this one. " when meanwhile...money just isn't that big a deal to the girl, she's seen money, she's spent it, big deal, BTDT..she wants is a real actual relationship. If you're not on the same page with someone, date other people.and she responded with(this irritated me some) " i want to have this conversation in person the next time we hang out. I want to get out of the dating game lol" my feelings: 1. the part where she keeps insisting that we have to agree to get together in the future, if i want to stop hanging out now is confusing. the part where she wants to talk about all this in person next time as she doesnt want to hang out casually indiefnetely is confusing. I nearly had my current relationship blow up over text misunderstandings, but I kept my cool, had the conversation in person where things got resolved and we both were clear on expectations.
i left it as ok, lets just hang out casually no expectations. Sure, acting unavailable might work at the casual dating stage, but what happens after that? Learn an instrument, a language, or take dancing lessons. 2) Set Boundaries Why would someone commit to you if they’re getting everything they want without the commitment?How long before insecurities, neediness, and jealousy creep in? If you’re struggling to find people willing to move beyond casual dating, there’s a good chance you’re giving too much. But, I have started being nicer to the hubby now that he is only home every other weekend. Said I was going to start running again, it's been too cold for that! Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! I can't say I'm trying too hard, but I'm not gaining. Some forums can only be seen by registered members. For him as with many guys I've known - good, quality guys, awesome guys, strong guys - sex without something more just gets hollow, and "I wish she loved me back" sex is even worse. Ha ha, use up his money until you find a BETTER guy with money...fist-bump! In reality that probably won't happen with this guy, so it's up to him to confront her, end it, or just accept the commitment won't happen and keep the sex. In reality that probably won't happen with this guy, so it's up to him to confront her, end it, or just accept the commitment won't happen and keep the sex. Money from some dude is every girl's ideal situation! I guess my real advice is to not push for commitment and hope she comes around and developes feelings. I guess my real advice is to not push for commitment and hope she comes around and developes feelings. I even watch it while I'm on the treadmill, for Giada's sake! I can't say I'm trying too hard, but I'm not gaining.