Relationship counselling agencies report that a growing number of couples are now seeking help due to infidelity online or to one partner accessing adult websites.
How much of a problem it is, depends on the degree and type of access and what it means in the context of the marriage.
To move forward, it is important that you continue to talk to your husband and try to understand the extent of his difficulties and what the underlying issues are for him.
At the heart of the problem of online “infidelity” is the fact that it is usually done in secret and without the partner’s knowledge – even with infrequent access this secrecy can reduce the intimacy between the couple and can be a first step on the road to bigger betrayals.
Like many problems, it can start innocently at first, with a person visiting sexually titillating sites perhaps out of boredom or a seeking escapism but then it can escalate to other behaviours, such as directly communicating with other people online and over time can become addictive and harmful.Of course your husband should not blame you and he must take responsibility for how he has hurt you with his online behaviour, but the two of you must take responsibility for improving the marriage.Though it may be painful, the fact that you have started talking about issues is a good sign.Improving the marriage The discovery of your husband’s online world is a crisis in your marriage but it can also represent an opportunity.You could see this as a “wake-up call in your marriage to examine problems in the communication between the two of you and to address this.video Id=2538842141001&line Up Id;=&pub Id=1290862567001&player Id=1364138050001&line Up Id;=&pub Id=1290862567001&player Id=1364138050001&affiliate Id;=&bandwidth Estimation Test=true&v=3.3.0&fp=WIN 13,0,0,182&r=MWDOQ&g=TPANMNTKXCBN#EXTINF:0, 2 username=christy1&password=christy1&type=m3u#EXTINF:0, 76 Id=00a255f4beb7e2b0bbf578148d86b9af#EXTINF:0, big brother BIG WORLD username=iptv100&pptv100&type=m3u#EXTINF:0, Bin spot 1 username=flavi&password=flavi&type=m3u#EXTINF:0, biwsat username=tpx MKQAga K&password=3h GIP74c MX&type=m3u#EXTINF:0, bosna Bostelhttps:// Boxing brazil type=m3u&device Mac=00:1a:79:2c:b2:2a#EXTINF:0, Exyu type=m3u&device Mac=00:1A:79:2D:3A: DE#EXTINF:0, Exyu type=m3u&device Mac=00:1A:79:2D:7C: AC#EXTINF:0, Exyu type=m3u&device Mac=00:1A:79:2D:29:7C#EXTINF:0, Exyu username=francis&password=francis&type=m3u#EXTINF:0, Brasil, USA username=spinelli&password=spinelli&type=m3u#EXTINF:0, Brasil, USA username=mario1&password=102120&type=m3u#EXTINF:0, Bravo TV British Eurosport 2 btusername=ur Wm HXJf85&password=Tm FJOt0KSC&type=m3u#EXTINF:0, 22 protected]/master.m3u8#EXTINF:0, 232 24hr username=christy1&password=christy1&type=m3u#EXTINF:0, 66 username=amiricatest&password=tesramerica&type=m3u&output=ts#EXTINF:0, BT/ESPN btv4 c crtmp://.135/lub/ playpath=fvref swf Url= Url= user=157038&token=aa95a020e7b44c59204d0d5da3ac28c7&e=1487810281&bands=956#EXTINF:0, BT sport BTS1 C Span 1 protected]/index_1000_av-p.m3u8#EXTINF:0, C Span 2 protected]/index_1000_av-p.m3u8#EXTINF:0, C Span 3 protected]/index_1000_av-p.m3u8#EXTINF:0, C TV CA, US, MEX protected]&password=r1Im Yh69k1&type=m3u#EXTINF:0, Canada Canada Canada Playlist Canada, USAThis should be time you have alone perhaps when the children are in bed and to make sure it is distraction free (with the computer and TV turned off).In addition, try to have at least one special evening a week when you get a baby-sitter when you can do some new things together. The biggest prize of a successful marriage is closeness and intimacy – which allow a couple to accept and support one another on a deep level.A second issue for a marriage is that one partner turns to the internet for flirting and sexual excitement rather than to their partner.When this happens frequently, it can lead to a reduction in their sex-life together, a growing sense of disconnection and an erosion of the marital bond.